What are they teaching THESE KIDS!!!

[Mahogany Momma]

I just saw this video... couldn't post it on BMC but you can click here to watch. PLEASE COME BACK HERE AND COMMENT ... I was up in arms when I saw this one... this is just too much! Moms do chime in.


This is sad and not appropriate ... these kids are too young and these things are being taught earlier and earlier and ... alright go watch the video. - lh

[Nappykat]

^^^^ Interesting. You daughter is 22 and grown. If you have younger children and showed it to them, what would they think? I'm saying 'you' general, not specifically.

I have kids that are 11, 14, and 17. I'm sure they would say 'uhn, that's nasty!' But I would correct them on that because 'nasty' is not what I want them to think. Everything sexual and sensual is not 'nasty.' I would want them to share their views on why this is 'inappropriate' instead. What does the behavior say? What does it imply and why? Are the parents acting appropriate? What should they do and why? I like these type of conversations with my kids. I want to know what they really think and where they head is at instead of just parroting what they think I want them to say. It also tells me how I been doing as a parent in instilling my own set of values without fear.

My 7 year old's opinion would be based on what she thinks I would want her to say, so I don't think it would be credible as her own personal opinion yet.

[Chantel Smith]

That is so sad. I have a 3yr old daughter and 2 yr old son. What kind of mother would teach and video tape their child? I can not describe the way I feel right now. I'm so sicken by that video and I just don't understand how the adults in the video thought is was cute and funny.What is our world coming to?

[Natacha]

I was not just shock I had my mouth open in disbelief I just d'ont understand it, it is so very bad, wrong disturbing wow.
I can not believe someone said this was their culture
I beg to differ on that.
The whole thing should be taking of the net and those adults have some explaining to do.
this is crazy.

[Tenitra]

I watched the video for about a min and personally I think it is disgusting. Albeit if it wasn't for sex none of us would be here but I think children that young simulating sex acts is simply repulsive. I do feel that it is extremely to teach our children-girls and boys to be comfortable with their bodies and the beauty of sex and love. I just don't feel that the incidents on that video is appropiate for any ae child. Unfortunately we live in a culture that is guided by sex and not respect. Boys are taught that sleeping with several girls makes them a man and a lot of girls are taught that p***y is power and that whole ignorant mindset is corrupting a lare part of the black community. Personally I think people as a whole need to get back to truly raisin thier children and stop letting the media, and televison and rap videos direct children. Not sayin that theses things are responsible for the high teen pregnancy rate and all the other woes that plague; but what I am saying is that if a child continues to see this and does not have a strong influence of reality versus the fiction then that child becomes lost.

[Cookie]

My mouth is still open!!!! I can't believe this. Some one needs to contact social services. What happen to pin the tale on the donkey and musical chairs

[Donyale]

The parents should be arrested and the children should taught that this is very, very inappropriate behavior. In a society where sexual harassment is frowned upon and pedophiles are running rampant, these children would not know that they or someone else is doing anything wrong. This is very hard to take especially since I have children. I would never allow them to be put in this situation by anyone!!

[MAXINE P. SOSO]

My jaws are still dropped. I was so sickened that after about two minutes, i couldn't even watch any more. I see some of the people that commented on that site see nothing wrong with it. Sure, it may be normal to some people however, in my book it's still a form of child abuse. Now, while the grown-ups are teaching those children to be fresh, their little body parts might be getting all tingly and curiosity might set in. Then, when the parents catch those same young children acting on what they were feeling, the parents attitude might change and they may start freaking out, maybe even beat the children; but that will be their own fault. I people who teach children those type of things should be severely disciplined.

[Germanie]

What The......... This is ridiculous

[Tashema Daniels-Persad]

Honestly this was so upsetting I couldnt watch it all. There are soooo many things that are just plain wrong. Besides it being inappropriate, it encourages sex at an early age makes the young ladies into sex objects and teaches the boys to disrespect women. I couldnt imagine what I would do if I saw my daughter dancing like that.

[Arkisha]

I have seen this all to many times in our community . The parents are to blame and should be arrested

[Cleo Allen]

What in the WORLD is that WTF is going on there. Not my daughter. I don't care what country they are in, English or Spanish speaking, they are teaching those children WRONG.

[Lashanda Barber]

Im a teacher and I regret to say that I am not at ALL shocked by the video that was posted. This type of behavior is quite common in our own backyards. This is the type of value system that I combat each day in my classroom..lack of pride, self respect, and values. OUR kids are not the only ones that exhibit this raunchy behavior, HOWEVER WE cannot afford to subject our children to this foolishness.I feel so sorry for these kids. acting out the adult's disfunctions.This is abuse in my eyes.