Well the Holidays are fast approaching. What should I do if I don't want to visit my boyfriend's father's house for Thanksgiving? He has a pit bull ( I am allergic to dogs), no running water and it takes 1 hour to get to his house. Oh, and the food is tasteless. I don't want my little girl there. My boyfriend says his dad wants to see the baby. I tell him I don't want to go if there is no running water. I can't believe that people choose to live like this. Plus, I don't think pit bulls and babies mix well together. On the other hand, I have invited the “in-laws” over to my house, but they don’t like the city. My stand now is that I went to their place 2 or 3 times and they have not been to mine once. I ask, where is the compromise?