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Hurt Sad and Alone

You're pregnant, and working. He should be doing more chores not less. He's acting crazy to drive you away, and to get out of the hands-on responsiblity. My daughter's father flipped when I was alm...

Replied Jun 2

Senator proposes tougher laws on absentee parents

http://www.legis.state.la.us/billdata/streamdocume LAW. Provides relative to actions for failure to exercise rights pursuant to a court-ordered visitation schedule. (8/15/08)

Replied Aug. 26, 2008

What do you want to see on the BMC?

I usually check the main page, but the same forum and blogs are being featured for too long it seems. I would like to see the LATEST post scrolling up on a regular basis. I think you should turn th...

Replied Aug. 25, 2008

Are Women To Blame For Men's Bad Behavior?

I'm happy you started this conversation. I can see your point of views so far. I want to add, that it bothers me dearly, when people say you chose the wrong man, and mad a bad choice. Maybe the wo...

Replied Aug. 11, 2008

Should Children Always Be Allowed to See Their Fathers?

Please listen to my very first BTR show that aired May 31, 2008, to hear what other peple had to say on this matter. It was worth the conversation. Why do MEN hide from their children?? Was your Pa...

Replied Jun. 18, 2008

Senator proposes tougher laws on absentee parents

I think this is a good bill to help men recognize that there is TIME AND LABOR involved in parenting his offspring. But there is no way in HELL I would trust my daughter's father with her for your ...

Replied Jun. 8, 2008

What is your opinion about charging teens rent? Did you have to pay rent as a teenager?

Do Teens become the missing father's income? Do Single Moms need the money? Are teen jobs replacement for child support? Does teen employment contribute to the highschool dropout rate? http://www....

Started Jun. 7, 2008

How this Black Mom gave Single Mothers a Voice...

That's exactly why I started a single moms TALK RADIO SHOW. If I hear, "You should have known better", one more time, I'm going to snap. TOO MUCH CRITICISM, and our experiences get cut short, becau...

Replied May. 31, 2008

How this Black Mom gave Single Mothers a Voice...

70% of black households are single parents, mostly headed by single moms. Nationwide, across the races, 39% of all mothers are (allegedly) single moms. Which puts single moms into the MILLIONS. The...

Replied May. 30, 2008

Senator proposes tougher laws on absentee parents
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Quinn proposes tougher laws on absentee parents Posted by Lauren Wilbert, NOLA.com April 02, 2008 11:13AM Sen. Julie Quinn, R-Metairie, has proposed a bill that would penalize non-custodial parent...

Started this discussion. Last reply by Kiri Love Aug. 26, 2008.

Should Children Always Be Allowed to See Their Fathers?

Wow Kim. That's alot to deal with too. When you have the time, please read my blogs on myspace. http://www.myspace.com/kirilove If you have a myspace page, please request me as a friend. I have a t...

Replied May. 9, 2008

My Man, My Daddy

Thank you for this. Since I've joined the social network community on the internet, I have realized that 75% of the women are stuck on moving past a relationship with them and a bitter love, that t...

Replied May. 5, 2008

Bad Seed: Picking the Wrong Man

You make some excellent points here. God intended for women to choose once. For humans to choose one mate for life. But we choose for now, with intentions to choose again for later. Over and over ...

Replied May. 5, 2008

EXPOSING YOUR CHILDREN WHEN DATING

I don't ever believe that a woman should expose her children to a man for any other purpose than to prepare for marriage with this man. A boyfriend who is around for sexual gratification only, shou...

Replied May. 4, 2008

Should Children Always Be Allowed to See Their Fathers?

I believe in regularity or not at all. But it depends. If the child is use to the father, had a relationship with the father, and longs for the father that he knew, the kid should see the father no...

Replied May. 4, 2008

Learning How to Deal with Black Men Helped me find the right Black Father...

"Girls need to have that man, at least one man who truly loves them unconditionally" This is effecting me so deeply and emotionally, I have to stop here and come back.

Replied Mar. 15, 2008

What's Wrong with Half Siblings and Multiple Baby Daddies

My grandmother who was born around 1919, married once, had 12 children by 8 different fathers. My mother had 4 with my father, and 1 by another man, my father had an additional 3 kids by 2 more wom...

Replied Mar. 15, 2008

Why is it so hard for black women to talk about FATHERS, but so easy to talk about MEN?
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A few radical anti-feminist afrocentric black males, have brought to my attention, that raising good boys to be good men, being a good wife, and praising the good respectable black men are not even...

Started this discussion. Last reply by Denise Aug 14.

About Fathers.

It is very hard for me to try to raise a child with two opposing sets of principles. Religious and anti-religious. Anti-smoking/drinking/drugging vs weed is harmless. Prohibited profanity and viole...

Tagged: involvement, standard, stability, child, responsible

Replied Mar. 14, 2008

About Fathers.
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At 3:20pm on March 14th, 2008, Mikayla said… About Fathers. It has been my experience as a parent and as a child that the child should NEVER get caught in the middle of adult issues. This becomes v...

Tagged: involvement, standard, stability, child, responsible

Started this discussion. Last reply by Kiri Love Mar. 14, 2008.

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An open honest discussion about the fathers of our children, our own fathers, our step fathers, fathers to be, ideal fathers, good fathers, bad fathers, fun fathers, uplifting fathers, absentee fathers, loving fathers, unaffectionate fathers,etc.
October 25
I strongly agree with you because I am going through that situation at this time, and my son grandfather wasn't around for his father so he thinks that I am suppose to do everything and take him were ever I go while he is free.
October 22
An open honest discussion about the fathers of our children, our own fathers, our step fathers, fathers to be, ideal fathers, good fathers, bad fathers, fun fathers, uplifting fathers, absentee fathers, loving fathers, unaffectionate fathers,etc.
October 22
Why is this group so dead? I know FATHERS are being created everyday...
September 30
An open honest discussion about the fathers of our children, our own fathers, our step fathers, fathers to be, ideal fathers, good fathers, bad fathers, fun fathers, uplifting fathers, absentee fathers, loving fathers, unaffectionate fathers,etc.
September 30
An open honest discussion about the fathers of our children, our own fathers, our step fathers, fathers to be, ideal fathers, good fathers, bad fathers, fun fathers, uplifting fathers, absentee fathers, loving fathers, unaffectionate fathers,etc.
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An open honest discussion about the fathers of our children, our own fathers, our step fathers, fathers to be, ideal fathers, good fathers, bad fathers, fun fathers, uplifting fathers, absentee fathers, loving fathers, unaffectionate fathers,etc.
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Left a comment on deadbeat grandmas.You are doing a good job and providing intelligent,inspiring and thoughtful blogs.KEEP DOING YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Why join the Black Moms Network?
Networking. I'm here to have an honest discussion about the issues dealing with "BLACK" single moms. Otherwise, parenting is a universal issue. I love networking about parenting with all races and cultures.

View my page on Children Need Both Parents
How many children do you have?
2 =a 1 year old girl & a 13 year old boy

I am in search of all kinds of information to improve my attitude toward my child's father, and to help me understand why black households are 70% single parents today.
About Me:
I didn't ask to be or plan on being a single mom. How about you?

I want to talk about FATHERS. Are there any ongoing discussions talking about fathers? Please find me if you would like to talk about FATHERS also. This single mom thing is new to me, and I know we all have a reason why we are single mothers. We didn't make these babies by ourselves.

CHECK OUT THIS WEBSITE FOR THE 'NATIONAL FATHERHOOD INITIATIVE'
www.fatherhood.org
https://www.fatherhood.org/research.asp

Check out the research, statistics, and studies, 'FATHER FACTS', for yourself, so you can see where I'm coming from and where I want to go with CAN WE TALK ABOUT FATHERS.
Age:
34
Gender
Female
Website:
http://www.myspace.com/kirilove
Favorite Website:
http://www.popbycarolross.com/

Psyche of the Single Parent

http://www.blogtalkradio.com/psycheofthesingleparent
Listen to Psyche Of The Single Parent on internet talk radio Click to open a new window to listen to show!
It's time to saturate pop culture with positive black voices. It's time to let the world know who we are and what we think. It's time to over power and strong arm the media with the TRUTH.


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Kiri Love

Deadbeat Grandmas...let's end our silence about them: Grandmotherless Children

Deadbeat Grandmas:

This show was an icebreaker show on the subject, that I'd like to revisit in the future. Thank you for listening and calling in. I'm sorry I didn't get to all the callers holding the line to share their input on air. Please call back for the future show.

It turned out to be an emotional subject for me to talk about on air, absent of jokes. I absolutely was not in the mood to interview my mom on air, because it is an absolute emotional subject for her too, as with many gra
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Posted on July 20, 2008 at 6:26am — 3 Comments

Kiri Love

Have you been accused of cutting the kids off from their dad,...

because you're so in love with the father, and mad because it didn't work out with him?


WELL THIS IS THE TYPE OF BULLSH*T THAT'S FLOODING THE INTERNET ABOUT SINGLE MOMS.

Let's set the record straight tonight by AUDIO BLOGGING on BTR!!!!!!!!!!!!

What do we really tell our kids? Let's flood the internet with our own messages of the REALITY!!!!!

Call in tonight to be live on air, and recorded for the mass internet users to hear. Call in with your nick name, pen name, etc. SO WE CAN INCLUDE
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Posted on July 12, 2008 at 9:30am —

Kiri Love

The High Price of Child Care: Breaking the Piggy Bank

What are you paying your babysitter to do, and how much is it worth?

CHILDCARE, babysitters, legal age to start leaving a kid unsupervised. The cost of someone else to raise our children and become our surrogate housewife. Whose teaching the kids what? How much is a mother worth during the day vs. a babysitter.

Show Length: 30 Minutes
http://www.blogtalkradio.com/psycheofthesingleparent

Keywords childcare, babysitters, latchkey kids, family childcare, stranger childcare… Continue

Posted on July 9, 2008 at 6:00pm —

Kiri Love

Recession & Food Prices causing a food shortage in your house?

Recession & Food Prices causing a food shortage in your house?

Well don't fret, let's pull out our old bag of tricks!





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Posted on June 27, 2008 at 6:00pm —

Kiri Love

Single Moms who had to resort to showing their naked bodies to provide for their kids- Discussed on BTR. Causing awareness and sharing resources.

Black women account for the highest number of porn and sex workers in many markets, in America. And they don't get paid much. Yes, it is very sad, all of it. Then we give birth to daughters.

Gentlemen's clubs in the U.S. take in $15 billion dollars each year. A typical club in a major city can gross $10 to $20 million per year. By one estimate, 10 percent of the country's economy is tied up in smut.

Atlanta has more nude clubs than any other city in America, and these businesses bring more
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Posted on June 21, 2008 at 1:00pm — 1 Comment

Kiri Love

Single Mom vs Married Mom: Slamming The Stereotypes and Myths LIVE TONIGHT@10PM CST!!!

This is just a list to get the ball rolling, but you can express your own life experience that is contrary to the myth.
Call-in Number: (646) 716-4924 TONIGHT 10pm CST-11:45pm CST
http://www.blogtalkradio.com/psycheofthesingleparent/2008/06/15/SINGLE-MOM-vs-MARRIED-MOM
Statistics form stereotypes, and stereotypes form myths. So tonight we will not discuss the researched stats, only true life experiences that defy the myths. I will post a blog with the facts and statistics to these myths in the d… Continue

Posted on June 14, 2008 at 8:16pm —

Kiri Love

Married Moms, Divorced Moms, Single Moms, Grandmoms, WE NEED A PANEL THIS SATURDAY NIGHT.

Let's share our experiences about being married, divorced, single, and in a relationship, raising kids.

OUR FOCUS: Attacking the stereotypes & myths!

-You shouldn't be broke, you're married.
-You chose to divorce, you should have stayed with your kids father.
- If you work on yourself, maybe you'll be able to find a man, even though you have kids.
-If I was you, I wouldn't trust that boyfriend of yours around my kids.

Talking about our past, present and future familial status. Calling
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Posted on June 10, 2008 at 9:04am — 1 Comment

Kiri Love

PARENTS OPEN FORUM on talk radio ever Saturday Night 11pm EST/ 10pm CST

We had an 8 person panel this week. Thank you to all who participated and listened.

It takes a village to raise a child.......
Parents supporting parents.....
We must address the issues to help correct the wrongs...
Our future generations must become our priority...

THANK YOU FOR TALKING ABOUT IT, and supporting my efforts to talk about family, our children, fathers, social issues, and parenting issues that effect every one of us.

EVERY SATURDAY NIGHT 11pm EST/ 10pm CST
http://www.blogtalk
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Posted on June 8, 2008 at 10:02am —

Kiri Love

Featured BTR Show: Adult Children Of Absentee Fathers was an emotional outlet.

1st show, technical difficulties, emotionally charged, overtime, MEN came undone. Loved it! Listen.
http://www.blogtalkradio.com/psycheofthesingleparent
Listen to Psyche Of The Single Parent on internet talk radio
Kiri Love

5/31/2008 11:00 PM EST

Category: Family

Call-in Number: (646) 716-4924



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Posted on June 1, 2008 at 3:30pm —

Kiri Love

I Love this Black Moms Club Website, I'm new to it. Here's my 1st email to L. Henry. What do you think?

I love your website but I see something missing and detrimental to parenting.

PLEASE ADD ADVICE on how to include the non custodial father in a child's life. When and if this is possible, it should be encouraged.

I see you do include low income resources for single moms, but in most states these resources are being phased out and replaced with MANDATORY CHILD SUPPORT FILINGS or no state support will be eligible. And now the maximum income allowed in IL is $1,000 or less to recieve many of t
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Posted on March 14, 2008 at 9:34am — 1 Comment

 
 

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