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LaVender posted a blog postBeing a Helpmate
Hubby and I had a conversation this morning about me being his helper/helpmate, helpmeet...whatever you want to call it. I've always tried to ask hubby what he needs help with instead of trying to read his mind. I've also tried to do those 'helpmeet' duties that I've been taught to do, yet as I mentioned, I no longer agree with those teachings.Our ConversationMe: Kevin, you know I've been praying and studying about marriage and I'm on this helper stuff.Kevin: Shakes head in agreement as he puts…See More
LaVender posted a blog postPresents in the Pulpit
When I walked into the church sanctuary yesterday, I noticed the pulpit was adorned with beautiful poinsettias and presents. I accepted the poinsettias, but the presents didn’t settle with me very well. I know it’s the Christmas season, but what’s up with the large sized presents in the pulpit?Knowing my pastor, I knew the presents had a purpose, so I excused my critical, carnal thoughts.When my pastor’s sermon began, it all came together. The topic was, The Reaction to the Gift and of course,…See More
LaVender posted a blog postWe Interrupt This Life...
It’s such a blessing to be surrounded by family when I visit my parents’ home for the holidays, but it’s very difficult to find a quiet place to renew my mind. Saturday morning, I awoke very early to exercise and thought I succeeded at finding a minute alone until my father walked into the room. He said he was going to stop me from exercising because he needed to say something. Daddy, are you kidding me?My father began his conversation by stating why he didn’t have a problem stopping me from my…See More
LaVender replied to adrienne strachn's discussion 'WHO LOVES A NAGGING HUSBAND, OR HOW WOULD YOU HANDLE IT?'"If he hasn't always been this way, it may be something else that is bothering him. For whatever reason, spouses feel comfortable taking things out on each other - it's safer. Find a good time (if there is one) when he's in a good mood…"
LaVender replied to Spirit Filled's discussion 'When he say's he wants to walk away.'"Lean not to your own understand (or ours), but in ALL your ways acknowledge Him and He will direct your pathS.
Spirit, fast and pray and you will know exactly what to do by the peace or lack of that you have in the decisions you need to make. The…"
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- Why join the Black Moms Network?
- Motherhood is my passion! I am the founder of MOMSWEB, Inc., which is a non-profit organization sharing the reality of Motherhood. Mothers have so many challenges and we all have low moments, yet we usually don't share them. MOMSWEB is a safe haven for mothers to come and not feel judged for being everything to everybody and getting TIRED!
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- How did you find the black moms club?
- Ning
- How many children do you have?
- 3 if I include my husband (lol)
- About Me:
- I enjoy reading, writing, baking, and sharing with Mothers about our influential role!
- Age:
- 44
- Gender
- Female
- Location:
- Pensacola, FL - originally from Montgomery, AL
- Website:
- http://www.lavenderwilliams.com
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LaVender's Blog
Being a Helpmate
Hubby and I had a conversation this morning about me being his helper/helpmate, helpmeet...whatever you want to call it. I've always tried to ask hubby what he needs help with instead of trying to read his mind. I've also tried to do those 'helpmeet' duties that I've been taught to do, yet as I mentioned, I no longer agree with those teachings.
Our Conversation
Me: Kevin, you know I've been praying and studying about marriage and I'm on this helper stuff.
Kevin:… Continue
Our Conversation
Me: Kevin, you know I've been praying and studying about marriage and I'm on this helper stuff.
Kevin:… Continue
Posted on January 19, 2010 at 10:28am
Presents in the Pulpit
When I walked into the church sanctuary yesterday, I noticed the pulpit was adorned with beautiful poinsettias and presents. I accepted the poinsettias, but the presents didn’t settle with me very well. I know it’s the Christmas season, but what’s up with the large sized presents in the pulpit?
Knowing my pastor, I knew the presents had a purpose, so I excused my critical, carnal thoughts.
When my pastor’s sermon began, it… Continue
Posted on December 7, 2009 at 2:06pm
We Interrupt This Life...
It’s such a blessing to be surrounded by family when I visit my parents’ home for the holidays, but it’s very difficult to find a quiet place to renew my mind. Saturday morning, I awoke very early to exercise and thought I succeeded at finding a minute alone until my father walked into the room. He said he was going to stop me from exercising because he needed to say something. Daddy, are you kidding me?
My father began his conversation by stating why he didn’t have a problem… Continue
My father began his conversation by stating why he didn’t have a problem… Continue
Posted on November 30, 2009 at 11:05am
The Other Woman
I'm fully aware of the other woman in my husband's life. I've seen her on countless occasions and I can usually tell exactly what day she decides to surface. She's the most bold woman I have ever known.
I know it's strange reading this here, but writing is healing for me. Yes, it's time for me to be transparent about even this.
How can I remain so calm? Well, I'm not calm about it at all and her periodic visits with hubby upset me, but what can I do? Sometimes it scares me… Continue
I know it's strange reading this here, but writing is healing for me. Yes, it's time for me to be transparent about even this.
How can I remain so calm? Well, I'm not calm about it at all and her periodic visits with hubby upset me, but what can I do? Sometimes it scares me… Continue
Posted on November 21, 2009 at 6:48am
The Other Woman
I'm fully aware of the other woman in my husband's life. I've seen her on countless occasions and I can usually tell exactly what day she decides to surface. She's the most bold woman I have ever known.
I know it's strange reading this here, but writing is healing for me. Yes, it's time for me to be transparent about even this.
How can I remain so calm? Well, I'm not calm about it at all and her periodic visits with hubby upset me, but what can I do? Sometimes it scares me… Continue
I know it's strange reading this here, but writing is healing for me. Yes, it's time for me to be transparent about even this.
How can I remain so calm? Well, I'm not calm about it at all and her periodic visits with hubby upset me, but what can I do? Sometimes it scares me… Continue
Posted on November 21, 2009 at 6:48am
Comment Wall (12 comments)
- At 7:42am on December 19, 2007, LaVender said…
- Keep your PEACE of Mind as a Mother! Join the Peace Place.
www.peaceplace.ning.com
- At 10:57pm on January 30, 2008,
jasai said… - Come on over and join the Yogini Mommy Group at the Black Moms Club. At Yogini Mommy you can get information about yogic lifestyle that is easily incorporated into your daily routine.
Learn how controlling the breath helps to regulate mood. How certain postures can aid in improved circulation and glandular function or what foods you can eat prevent disease or promote beautiful skin.
I look forward to seeing you there!
Jasai
Kundalini Yogini
- At 12:41am on February 10, 2008,
Gorgeous said… - LaVender,
May I please have the link to the peace place? I can't seem to find it.
Thanks
- At 11:31am on March 27, 2008,
kim said… - Hi Lavender,
Currently I don't have a website. I'm still working on developing the page. I'm also in the middle of completing all of these business forms. But, you all will be the first to know when Suga Mama's website is up and running.
Also, does anyone know any great graphic designers that are affordable? Remember this mama is a SAHM.
Kim
- At 12:04pm on June 11, 2008,
Nicole E. Porter said…
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- At 11:28pm on June 26, 2008, jasai said…
- Become one of the new FastGirls!
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If you are looking for an opportunity to bloom beautiful this summer, join us.
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- At 12:15pm on October 26, 2008,
Candice said… - I use to live in birmingham, Al and for the last 6 years in Tampa,
- At 1:05pm on December 22, 2008,
Spirit Filled said…
I do appreciate the comments you left (topic submission). This is not a topic that can be discussed with just anybody, not everybody understands or are willing to accept what it means to be submissive to your husband. But as I grow spiritually, there is a "freedom" I am feeling. It feels good to "let go and let God"...Have a blessed and joyful Christmas.
- At 12:58pm on August 24, 2009,
Mommy Dearest said…
- I'm inviting you to visit my new website, mom-me-dearest.ning.com! Thanks for your past friendship and support!
http://mom-me-dearest.ning.com/
--MD
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