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Waiting for the ring
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Waiting for the ring
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Started this discussion. Last reply by KimSyne Oct 28.
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You are a smart woman. We can't get mad at the man because we change our mind. The fact that he is there means that he wants to be there. Sometimes we just need to be still...because if you want the ring...put it out there once and continue to do ...
Nappycat:
I love you because if nothing else...you keep it real. Keep doing you...it looks good!
I think you should do what works for you. Of course it is your fault for whatever situation you find yourself in but there is nothing wrong with what you are doing, it's just a matter of choice. If it ain't broke don't try to fix it. If it is work...
I know this may seem crazy to many of you reading this post, but why must black women, mothers especially, settle for life without marriage. You live with him. You are raising his children. On the surface you are a family. Many of you have success...
oh, i like this,,,,, i may use this for my daughter... adrienne
Stop the madness, Men are not afraid, Men Love extreme sports i.e. football with the risk of breaking bones and the bloody knuckles of extreme fighting sports. As Ladies we have to stop making it seem as if Men are not conscious of the decisions t...
Definitely you are at fault and he has responsibility also. What shacking meant for me was very demeaning and hurful. Unlike some of the ladies here. I did not wait for years and several children later.I decided not to wait any longer after a year...
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im currently going thru the same thing we have a 4yr old and have been living together for 5yrs!! At first i didnt really think about marriage but now im starting to want to know if we will ever marry,he is always telling me we are not on the s...
Most men after about 2 to 3 years have a clue if they want to marry a woman or not. 7 years with no real interest of marrying you, it's all about what you require from him. If you require him to come home every night, then that's what he is going ...
First of all, I don't like the word "fault". I prefer the word accountable. Are you owning the choices that got you to where you are? Have you looked at what drove those choices? How do those choices align with your values? Are you willing to make...
Think like a man - if I can sex you, have kids by you, and string you along for 7 years, then why would I bother marrying you if I didn't want too? And if you are 'typical and traditional' I would probably be getting all the benifits of a wife (co...
You have a beautiful family Londa! I hope everything works out the way you desire, and that you two can come to an agreement that works for everyone.
Don't spend your time waiting for a ring, marriage is the goal. I had a ring for four or five years before we actually got married and that "ring" will "soup" you up into thinking your married when your not. And there will always be those out-of-t...
I was in the same situation with five kids and an engagement ring. I thought if he really wants to marry me he will bring up the topic of wedding plans sometimes, not just me. Most men don't think that far. Are you happy? If you want to be married...
Thank for the advice ladies. I know that I really want to be married to this man, but I have trusted this man with my life, emotionally, financially, sexually and everything in between and he hasn't failed me yet. I guess I just have to believe he...
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- 23 year old mother of 2,1 girl 4 years old and a boy 2 months old. Currently employed as a long-term care nurse. In a relationship with the father of my children and the love of my life for the last 6 years.
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