Before I can give any more advice, it sounds like you may have the answer already. Let me try to put what you said into perspective...
** First I don't fully buy into the idea that it isn't fair to him. In my experience men are extremely selfish an…
I appreciate your comments. Let me clear up a few things so you'll have a better understanding of where I am coming from. First I don't fully buy into the idea that it isn't fair to him. In my experience men are extremely selfish and only care about…
Take one day at a time. Who knows...he could be the one. It all depends on what you are looking for. When it all goes down, it's all about feelings...how does he make you feel? Let your heart be your guide. If things aren't right...you'll know and t…
Um.., no.
Compromise is one thing. Settling is whole 'notha story. You compromise with someone that you already like, love, and wanna be with. For instance, he's a smoker and you're not. You don't like smoking. So a compromise would be that he doesn…
I am a single mother. I have a 12 year old daughter. I have basically lost faith in men but there is this one guy who really likes me. I am not attracted to him because I don't think he's very smart. For example, he spent his tax return on a 1994 OR…
I don't think any considerations should be made. The full time parent doesn't get to make any concessions when it's time to pay the household bills so why should the non custodial parent. In this video these folks both look very well off and he stil…
I just graduated in May '08 with an Associates in Radiology Technology. I am back in school to either complete my bachelors, or just change and go into nursing since the opportunities and income for nurses are so abundant right now. I would definite…
I have done it when I went to school to be a radiology technologist. It's very, very difficult. I'm not sure what your schooling will earn you but I would recommend you set your sites higher than medical lab tech because I don't think they make very…
I know what you mean. When I did my radiology program I was broke like that also because the program was full time days so I worked part time evening and weekends and trying to survive financially and get the coursework done was crazy. I am still am…
I wouldn't say I've given up, I just focus on me and my daughter. Don't get me wrong, it would be so nice to have a 2nd income and emotional support and attention from a man but I don't seek it out any longer. I believe in the bible differently than…
I've read all the posts and I must start by saying I am not christian, however, I feel I am more morally and spiritually grounded than many women I know who claim to be so God fearing. I am also single and have never been married. I am not christian…
To have someone to talk too about the issues I face daily being an educated black single mother.
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About Me:
I live in the Kansas City Metro area. I have a daughter who will be a teenager this summer. I am still pursuing my education and trying to accomplish my goals, overcoming obstacles the whole way. I like politics and movies and I love to learn.
Just remember, as crazy as it may sound and feel, you are on the right track. Women with Morals are not only hard to come by, but many times over looked by men because we require work. And there are way too many women settling for crap. So in a "mans" mind, why put so much work into you when the next woman will be no "effort". But the right one will come your way. And don't lose your focus on bettering your life. Because as you continue to focus on you, and see that you deserve the best (in life and relationships) you will draw to you the same type of man with the same mind-set. And I look forward to talking with you again. You can always email me with anything you would like to talk about. That's what I am here for : ) (spiritually speaking : ))